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Tag: Self-Care mindset

  • Balancing Beauty and Energy: Finding Your Rhythm

    Because Some Days You’re a Squirrel, and Some Days You’re a Bear

    Our energy isn’t always the same from day to day. Some mornings, you might bounce out of bed like an over-caffeinated squirrel; other days, you’re more of a hibernating bear, slow and reluctant to leave your cosy den. Your beauty and self-care routines can reflect this rhythm, if you let them.

    Let’s be honest, self-care isn’t about rigidly sticking to some Instagram-worthy schedule. It’s actually more about tuning in to what you need, even if that means spending an extra five minutes cocooned under the duvet or indulging in a face mask that makes you look like a friendly swamp creature (not that the Tropic Hydrogel Face Mask will do that, unless the friendly creature in question glows like a dewy woodland fairy).

    Some days, you’ll be squirrel-level sprightly, requiring nothing more than a quick cleanse and moisturiser before scampering off. Other times, bear energy takes charge, and you crave a longer, richer ritual, think slow massages and layers of creamy goodness. Both are perfectly valid (and, let’s be fair, sometimes both are needed before the first cup of coffee). The secret is listening: what does your body want today, a dash or a dawdle?

    This isn’t about rebelling against discipline or skipping skincare altogether. It’s about giving yourself permission to adapt, to shift gears as needed, and to view beauty as an act of self-alignment rather than just another box to tick. Your routine can flex with your energy and the seasons, just as squirrels stash snacks in autumn and bears hibernate in winter.

    On a “squirrel” day, when you’re zipping about, the light ritual is your best friend. For example: Smoothing Cleanser, a brisk spritz of Morning Mist, a dab of Rainforest Dew Serum, and then Moisturiser; Skin Relief or Fresh Waves for those balmy Spring/Summer days, or Skin Feast when the winds howl come Autumn/Winter.

    On a “bear” day, let yourself retreat into the deep, plush cave of skincare. This might mean adding a Hydrogel Mask or Comfort Food Hydration Mask, calling in Eye Work or an extra Serum like Glow Berry, and finishing with a nourishing, rich face oil such as Super Greens or Elixir. (Pyjamas and fuzzy socks optional, but highly recommended.)

    Whether you’re a loyal Tropic devotee or have your own favourites, the real magic isn’t in the product but in allowing your routine to become a bridge, a gentle crossing where body meets mind, and sometimes, with any luck, a biscuit as well.

    Beauty isn’t just about what you see in the mirror; it’s about how you feel in the moment. Treat your routines as moving meditations and watch them transform from chores into rituals. Washing your face can be as grounding as a deep breath. Applying moisturiser? Consider that an act of gratitude for the skin that keeps you from turning completely inside out. Here lies the beautiful crossroads of mindfulness and beauty, not a finish line, but a chance to be truly present, one gentle gesture at a time.

    Texture, Temperature, Touch: The Sensory Bridge

    One of the easiest ways to invite more joy into your routine is simply to change your tone. Instead of thinking of skincare as something you must do to fix, enhance, or perfect, try seeing it as a way to honour your body (squirrel tail, bear fur, or otherwise).

    When your inner narrator swaps “must” for “may I?” everything softens. Suddenly, you’re not pushing your skin towards an impossible ideal, you’re listening, you’re responding, and you’re giving it what it needs right now, even if that’s just a splash of water and a wink in the mirror.

    You may feel you don’t have time, or the patience for formal meditation, but you can lean into your senses during your routines. Let’s make self-care a sensory adventure:

    • Notice the coolness of your products gliding across your skin
    • Feel your fingers tracing tiny squirrel-paths or slow bear-trails along your cheekbones
    • Catch the subtle scent of botanicals wafting up, bonus points if you can identify them before your morning coffee
    • Observe how your breath shifts, deepening as you massage, or turns squirrel-fast when you’re in a hurry

    Each gesture becomes a moment of presence, not necessarily a grand meditation, but a little act of reverence, care, and the sort of self-love that would make both squirrels and bears proud.

    A Gentle Challenge

    As you go about your week, try this simple experiment: listen before you do. Each day, pause; even if just for a breath or a glance, and sense: “What energy is here today?” Then, match your beauty ritual to that energy. Notice what shifts in your skin, your spirits, and your sense of presence. If you start speaking to squirrels, maybe take a day off…

    Beauty is not a fixed standard. It’s a living, breathing companion, sometimes sprightly, sometimes sleepy, always yours. Rather than chasing perfection outside, maybe it’s time to reclaim beauty as an experience that’s felt from within (bushy tail and bedhead included).

    If you’d like to see how these ideas connect with balance and gentle self-care, you can read my main piece: The Beauty of Gentle Courage and Self-Care here, or for a more mindful skin care routine: The Mind-Skin Connection here.

    The Christmas season is fast approaching, and Tropic has launched some fabulous luxury gift ideas, something for everyone, whether they’re squirrel, bear, or somewhere in between. Please check out the gift guide here.

    If you would like to order any Tropic products, Christmas or otherwise, please check out my webstore here.

  • The Beauty of Gentle Courage and Self-Care

    Summer Slump

    The world is often full of strange synchronicities. Self-care has been such a feature this week, both for myself and for my coaching clients. It feels like both they and I are finding it harder to be motivated to keep healthy routines going. I notice I am seeing and hearing so much lately about people not even knowing where to start with showing ourselves compassion and kindness.

    For some, it can be Summer itself, with its promise of a slow pace, freedom, fun, and longed-for getaways. The days become busier, routines go out the window, and before you know it, you’re running faster than you were before, and running on fumes to boot.

    We forget in the lure of warmth, sizzling BBQs, and the constant smell of sunscreen, that we still need support physically, emotionally, and mentally. We still need to make time for ourselves. In fact, for some of us, we need it more than before, because, for all its ease, Summer can be stressful.

    For others of us, the transition between lazy Summer days, the freedom and quiet, the longer evenings, and holiday adventures, back to the faster pace of normal life can not only be tricky but leave us feeling unmotivated and even low. It’s like that “back to school” feeling that never quite goes away.

    As summer draws to a close, the “Summer Slump”, whatever its cause, often gives way to reconnecting with the stress and anxieties of predictable schedules and life’s demands. Even making the most of the final days of Summer can feel pressured. And self-care? Well, that becomes a time burden and a chore.  

    The Power of Self-Care

    Yet, there’s something powerful about the way we care for ourselves. Not in the picture-perfect sense that’s so often pushed at us, but in the quieter choices we make each day, the ones that feed our spirit as much as our skin. The actions and choices that tell us we matter too.

    Self-care doesn’t need to be complicated or take ages when you’re feeling that Summer pressure. Sometimes the most nourishing rituals are the simplest. Maybe it’s taking a few extra minutes at night to slow down with your skincare routine, not rushing but really noticing the textures, the scents, the way your breath deepens as you let the day go.

    Maybe it’s taking a long soak in the bath or a shower with vibrant, luxurious scents that spirit you away to a tropical paradise. Or perhaps it’s just about taking a few minutes to put some makeup on and feel more together when you face your day.

    Whatever it is for you, notice how these small pauses feel in your body and mind, recognising that this too can be a way of showing ourselves kindness. Small moments like these create a sense of safety and calm, a reminder that we can hold space for ourselves no matter what else is happening in the world.

    But self-care isn’t only about soothing, it’s also about balance. It’s finding the sweet spot between tending to our inner world and showing up with confidence in the outer one. When we create routines that feel sustainable rather than overwhelming, we step into a kind of harmony that shows in our posture, our energy, and even in the way our skin glows. Notice which routines feel balanced and nourishing to you personally; it’s not about doing everything perfectly, but feeling right in your rhythm.

    And then, there’s courage. The kind that doesn’t always look like climbing mountains or making dramatic changes. Sometimes courage is as simple as choosing a bright lipstick on a day when you’d normally play it safe. Or wearing your natural hair or with a salt spray spritz to give it wave and volume, when you’re used to hiding it. Or meeting your own gaze in the mirror without immediately critiquing what you see.

    These seemingly small decisions carry weight. They are private rebellions, quiet affirmations that say: I am allowed to take up space. Tiny acts of gentle courage can ripple out in surprising ways. These small, bold gestures are reminders that beauty is not about perfection; it’s about daring to express the truth of who we are, even in the subtlest ways.

    When you combine gentleness, balance, and courage, something shifts. You start to notice that self-care isn’t a checklist, it’s a dialogue with yourself. And in that dialogue, you can discover both comfort and confidence, softness and strength. Try picking just one small nurturing gesture this week; it doesn’t have to be complicated, but doing it consistently makes it transformative.

    Your gentle challenge

    Choose one small way to nurture yourself this week, one way to bring balance, and one small, bold gesture that feels just a little braver than usual. See how it feels to weave all three together.

    These ideas can each stand on their own, and I’ll be sharing more in the coming weeks, like simple evening rituals of release, ways to balance beauty with energy, and little acts of brave beauty. But they all come back to this: self-care as an act of gentle courage.

    I’d love to know what small act of gentle courage you try first.

    If you’d like to explore products that can support your own self-care rituals, please check out my Tropic online shop here.

    For more ideas on how to create a more mindful skin-care routine, click here, and for more reflections on self-care, click here.